http://lotusdrive.blogdrive.com/ lotusdrive Fri, 23 Feb 2007 15:40:03 PST http://www.blogdrive.com Copyright 2007. http://lotusdrive.blogdrive.com/archive/2.html Fri, 23 Feb 2007 20:39:34 GMT Someone recently mentioned Dr. Pheg's advice about being the other woman and I have to say it made me think much less of him when I read it. Why do people depict interrelationships as being so simple and easily resolved? One of the frustrations I have with Dr. Pheg's advice is that it is very general and oversimplistic. People who have not faced the dilemma of a new relationship while in an old one have no idea what they're talking about. It takes a unique person to simply say to their spouse, "you're no longer meeting my needs, bye." Those of us who have done it are generally unable to do... (more) http://lotusdrive.blogdrive.com/archive/1.html Fri, 15 Jul 2005 11:02:26 GMT hmmm... it all seems so simple when we write it down.. and yet some of the topics are actually quite mind-straining. at least they are for me, when i think about them.. and try to figure them out. that's what is so puzzling.. do things really become simple or complex ? are there really concepts that are more difficult to comprehend than others ? comprehension. it's such an ambiguous word. and yet, we can very rarely explain everything that we comprehend. there is a theory that says that the universe tends to get more simple. now define 'simple'. and anyway, who ever said that the world is... (more)